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More or Less in Common
Episode 1003
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Holloway: |
Jay Holloway (Host) |
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Jordan: |
Milton Jordan, Writer/Researcher |
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Smith: |
Rasheeda
Smith, Shaw University student |
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Wilkins: |
Mr. Wilkins, State Membership Chairman, North Carolina
NAACP |
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Jackson: |
Reverend Jesse Jackson |
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Williams: |
Sonya Williams, Reporter, NC Now |
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Stone: |
Dr. Chuck Stone, Writer |
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Gantt: |
Harvey Gantt, NC Democratic Senatorial Candidate
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| Morgan:
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Marco Morgan, young interviewee |
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Female: |
Female Voice |
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Male: |
Male Voice |
Holloway:
Stay tuned next for Black Issues Forum. When you hear people
refer to the "black community" is it really that simplistic?
What about all the different issues regarding age, gender,
economics and education? I'm Jay Holloway. Join me next as
we explore "more or less in common."
[MUSIC]
Jackson:
Blacks and whites, working people, are closer to each other
than the extremes of wealth and poverty. Blacks and whites
on a daily basis catching the bus, the elevator, the subway
the train, the traffic jam, the ball parks, the public parks,
are into more relationships on a daily basis black and white,
horizontal, than have/have-nots vertically.
I want
to shift the emotions today from the white sheets to blue
suits and black robes.
Holloway:
Do blacks have more in common along age gender, class lines,
or is race still the bottom line? Good evening. I'm Jay Holloway
and this is Black Issues Forum. We're here every Friday night
at 11:00 on UNC-TV. And if you have access to the Internet
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us out on our home page at www.unctv.org for more details
on this subject and a wealth of resources for African Americans.
We try to provide analysis, ask the hard questions, t ake
you to some of the important events in our state and give
you statistics and suggestions on how to get more information
and how to get involved in this topic.
Tonight's
program is part three in a 13-part series. These programs
are designed to help you discuss serious issues with your
family and civic and community groups, and most importantly,
in the classroom. The program is not only for blacks, but
to encourage an increased understanding across racial lines.
This Fall we've already discussed race relations and the family.
Expect us to cover other topics relating to health care, networking,
education, technology, economics, business and leadership.
We will
try to focus most of our attention on what we all can and
should do and not what's wrong. And we'll attempt to give
you more analysis and information along with interviews of
interesting North Carolina people. In this program, we'll
discuss community relations within the black community. What
about the respect given to each other, regardless of age,
gender or social status? In 1995 the million man march symbolized
a significant change and widespread support within the black
community. But n early a year has passed. What has happened?
Was it just a gathering full of speeches or has it made a
difference? Are males more involved with their families? Are
people more active in civic and political and community organizations?
Tonight
we bring back Milton Jordan. And an active student at Shaw
University, an aspiring attorney, Rasheeda Smith. Let me welcome
both of you here. Rasheeda, it's special to have you here.
You're active in the student government there at Shaw University
and aspire to be an attorney one day.
Smith:
Yes.
Holloway:
You heard those remarks from Jesse Jackson. What do you think
about it? Do blacks and whites have more in common along the
same lines of these economic and working and social education
or is it still a race issue? Are blacks divided in that area?
Smith:
Well, actually, I feel that blacks and whites are still divided.
There is an issue of economics and it still plays a part in
how we interact with one another racially. You will see in
different communities - in the white community you'll see
the upper class white and you'll see the upper class blacks
and there's a large difference. And it's a serious problem.
You know, if we can look beyond the economics and look beyond
the money issues and look at one another, then it would be
a big d ifference.
Holloway:
Milton, you do quite a lot in terms of networking and you
teach at Central and you do writing. You've been working with
this program for a long time and you have a lot of strategies.
What do you think about Jesse's statement and do we have more
in common with whites in the same working class and education,
or is it back to a racial issue?
Well,
Jay, I think it depends on which story you buy. If you start
with the assumption that the factors that make us human are
more important than he factors that define us racially then,
yes, we have much more in common. If you also ask the other
question, why is it that somebody in this country years and
years ago invented the concept of race? Because nature doesn't
do that. We can't find the concept supported in nature. Anthropologists
have rejected it, scientists have rejected it. So why is it
i n somebody's vested best interest to hang on to it?
We are
divided if we start with the assumption that we are different.
If we are not different, that is to say we are all human,
then there are ways to reach across that divide and deal with
another human being. It's not easy. Now I, personally, do
not allow people to define me in any way other than my humanity.
I do not ascribe to it. I don't answer to question
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IN RECORDING]
Holloway:
[Already in Progress]. . . we have a stark difference right
here on the panel today in terms of age, gender -
Jordan:
Oh I'm young. I'm planning on living to be 120, so I'm 53
years young. [Laughter]
Holloway:
Even complexion. We've got some major differences here. How
do you all view, in terms within the black community, all
these kinds of differences? Let's just deal - both of you
are young. You're not quite in the same generation, but how
are we in the black community dealing with these differences?
Milton is probably old enough to be your father, I would guess.
Jordan:
I would suspect so. I won't ask how old you are, I realize
that's impolite, but I probably have sons your age.
Holloway:
There's still a - we call this generation x. You may be put
in that category, you've hear people refer to generation x.
Smith:
Um-huh.
Holloway:
How do you deal with the whole generation gap within the black
community first, let's look at it that way.
Smith:
Okay. First of all, I do have a serious problem with the title
generation x, what exactly is generation x?
Holloway:
Excuse me.
Smith:
Oh no, no. It's something that has just happened, it's transpired
after all this time and I'm not sure exactly what generation
x means, if it's unknown - what does it mean? But I know that
there is a serious gap. And I only know from my generation,
I'm not sure of generations before me, but it seems that this
generation is really not understood as much as we need to
be understood. We are really suffering.
In my
eyes, I would say that we're on the front line because we
are in a serious situation here. A lot of us feel that we
don't have any of the racial problems anymore and that everything
is going to be okay when actually racism is still here. It
was here in the '60s and before the '60s and during the time
of slavery and it continues to live on. And we need to focus
on that and we need to understand that this generation here
is a different type of generation.
Holloway:
Let me interrupt. You said, "not understood" first. Let me
back up to that. What do you think that Milton's generation
doesn't understand about your generation?
Smith:
Well, first of all, I like to use rap when it comes to not
being understood. A lot of the older adults, they look at
rap and they view it as something very negative. Now, there
are some negative rappers, but there is also positivity in
rap. And it's really unfortunate, because those rappers who
are positive aren't being looked at and viewed as positive
rappers in speaking to the youth. Because the youth - we're
really suffering.
We see
a lot of teenage pregnancies going on. We see a lot of the
youth suffering from HIV. We see a lot of the youth dealing
with drugs and all kinds of things while we're out there suffering.
And when we listen to this rap and listen to these different
types of lyrics, they speak to the youth, you know. And we
understand what they're saying. So, when a lot of the adults
look at rap and look down upon it, it's really not negative.
Holloway:
Milton. Rap music.
Jordan:
Doesn't bother me. My son listens to it all the time. First
of all, I'm not a traditionalist. Okay? I don't allow anybody
to define me. I don't allow anybody to tell me how I'm going
to sing. For me, this is much more important for human beings
to connect. Let me tell you why I don't think our generation
understands. And it's not new, it has happened in every generation.
You
Smith:
Right.
Jordan:
You cannot understand other people while listening to yourself.
You have to listen to other people in order to understand
them. You have to also at least begin to explore the possibility
that their frame of reference is right for them. Now, part
of our problem in this society is that we tend to see everything
from a doubting perspective rather than a believing perspective.
Almost naturally, within the American society, if you hear
something new, if you hear something different, your f irst
reaction is to say, "How is that wrong? What's wrong with
that?" And you begin to dissect it and slice it up - instead
of suspending doubt momentarily and ask yourself, "How could
that be right for this person?"
Now,
my younger son, particularly, is profoundly independent. And
we have friends who thought that music was, you know, the
pale of doom. That listening to all this nasty music is going
to set up all these nasty things and bring about all this
terrible stuff. And I sat down with my son one day and said,
"Let me listen to this with you." And we spent two or three
hours listening to the music he enjoyed.
I began
to realize that what I didn't like about it was not so much
the lyrics, but quite frankly, there wasn't much difference
between the lyrics of rap and the lyrics of what I now call
old gold, oldies but goodies. I mean, love don't work, nation
doesn't work, folks up against you upside your head, you don't
have enough money. I mean, those have been the lyrics of music
since time in memorial.
Holloway:
Now, do you think he has a good understanding on what your
generation is going through? Or how do you feel about what
he said?
Smith:
Well, actually, I think that is very good that you did sit
down with your son. Some parents don't even want to attempt
to do that, they just shy away from it. And that's very good,
because you want to understand this generation.
Jordan:
And you can only understand if you listen to the people you're
trying to understand.
Smith:
And that is true. And that is how you bridge that gap. When
you want to understand, you have to first make that step and
say, "Okay, I want to understand. And then I can sit down
and then I can understand and then we can work together."
There's not that gap there that causes the ignorance between
the two.
Jordan:
And I won't have it. Let me tell you what I found that I really
didn't like about rap music. It wasn't really the lyrics,
it was - the beat is strange to me. And it's strange to me
only because I have been programmed another syncopation, by
another beat. Now, once I suspend that and come to understand
that that's what, for me, in my ears is wrong with, it's okay.
Now, I'm not going to listen to it for hours on end, but if
he and I were in the car, my son - and he's got the quickest
f ingers in the east. I mean, he rides like this, with his
fingers on the button and when it comes on, he'll tell me,
"Now this is not one you're going to like, Dad, let me go
over here."
Holloway:
Well, let's do this now. I think our parents and hopefully
"generation x" have something they can take home with them
now. What Milton said - be open, listen, and you have to be
open to understanding first. Let's look at the other issue
of gender, male/female relationships. And you add the male/female
to the generation. There's enough problems with just male/female
in general.
Smith:
Um-huh.
Holloway:
I know you all have some comments on that. One, we've already
done a program on the black family, which is our second in
this series. And we know that we've got a number of still-single
female headed households, we've got a number of black males
absent for whatever reason. How do we deal with this whole
male/female relationship within the black community that's
affecting our families?
Jordan:
Rasheeda?
Smith:
Okay. We need to - it's all coming from understanding and
breaking that cycle of ignorance. And, um, I feel that if
you are brought up in that single parent home that it is the
parent's obligation to educate. If it's the mother raising
the children, educate the children on men. You know, sometimes
if the father's not in the home, you know, the child needs
to understand a man, especially if she's a female and vice
versa. And that's going to bridge the gap because I feel that
a lot of t imes the youth - we don't understand one another.
Men may not understand the women, women may not understand
the men which causes that disrespect. I don't know about your
generation, but I know that there has been a level of disrespect
with the males and the females.
Jordan:
Oh, absolutely.
Smith:
And it's really a concern and the only way to bridge that
is to educate one another and to respect one another. Understand
that we're different. We're not alike. But respecting one
another for the differences.
Jordan:
You see, I think there are a couple of problems. And I teach
college, so I talk with my students about this a lot. Part
of the problem, I think, is that men learn most of what they
know about women from men who don't know anything about women.
Unfortunately, again, in our society we do not allow men and
women to be friends. If a man is seen with the same woman
once or twice or three times, suddenly there is something
romantic going on here and that confuses the issue a lot of
times. It's kind of hard to be honest and open and candid
when there's this romantic underlying going on cause that
tends to get competitive.
I think
what should happen early on in life is - at pre-teens, and
we did this with our sons. I think that young boys and girls
- pre-teens - should get to know each other. They should be
able to sit down and converse and converse with adults present.
Now, see the other problem is that some adults are simply
afraid of young people's curiosity. They feel challenged and
intimidated by it and it's unfortunate because we're to be
there as guides, not controllers, but as guides.
And
I think if we could all sit down and really, as you say, respect
each other and understand that you don't have to be like me.
It's okay. I mean, you are you. You do not have to like what
I like. I mean, we should be able to get along together and
deal with each other without us having to be - and it isn't
a control factor. Now, part of it is the way we think of things.
We always - when we say single parent family, we always assume
female head and we always imply that there's something wrong
the re.
Holloway:
Speaking of that, there's also an association with a certain
education and economic level as well.
Jordan:
Sure.
Holloway:
In our last few minutes I'd like to the move the discussion
in that area because that's another area - Jesse Jackson spoke
at the beginning about having more in common with whites in
the same class in terms of working level than we do maybe
with each other. Now, the whole economic and education division
- we know that that's a class separation and that happens.
How do you see it in your communities throughout North Carolina
where you're on campus or in the community?
Smith:
How much -
Jordan:
Well, I think Fran did us a great blessing.
Holloway:
Okay.
Jordan:
Fran showed us that money doesn't matter in a real sense.
Because you could have had nine microwaves. If you didn't
have any power, it didn't matter. You see, and what Fran did
is level the field. And it began to show us that all of these
toys that we buy and all of this stuff - what really helps
are people reaching out for people. If you had a flashlight
then somebody needed a flashlight. So we needed to connect
at the people level as opposed to at the thing level. This
whole issu e of class and money, it is ridiculous. And it's
absolutely absurd. How in the world can something that I've
made be more important than me?
Holloway:
What do you think, Rasheeda?
Smith:
Okay. As far as I can speak from the university standpoint,
economics really should not matter. In the program that we
have at Shaw University called Peers as Partners, we prove
that - you know, we go out there and we mentor to these youths
and all, in high schools and junior highs and elementary schools
and other types of youth services.
And
we mentor to them and it doesn't matter what economic level
that we're on or what they're on. We just speak to them one-on-one
and educate them on life. Letting them understand that it's
hard, regardless of what level you're on economically or whatever,
it's hard. It's all a struggle. So we mentor to them and we
let them know it's going to be okay. So economics really shouldn't
be an issue. It is an issue with some people, but it shouldn't
be an issue and it's not so much an issue when it comes to
wanting to learn and to just being educated.
Jordan:
And I think if your generation would just assume that it shouldn't
be and enforce that, and not let it be, you can correct some
of these mistakes.
Holloway:
Well, I certainly want to thank you. I believe our time has
run out already. Rasheeda, thank you so much. Good luck with
things at Shaw University and when you become an attorney,
you remember us. And we know you've got a good foundation.
Smith:
Thank you very much.
Holloway:
Milton, again, thank you so much. And we know you're a part
of UNC-TV and Black Issues Forum.
Jordan:
My pleasure.
Holloway:
We think that the NAACP and other civic and community groups
are good examples of how you can actively participate in your
community or make a contribution regardless of your situation.
NC Now reporter/producer Sonya Williams followed what the
NAACP is doing in North Carolina about encouraging civic and
political involvement within the black community. [MUSIC]
Clip from Video:
Williams:
For decades, blacks have fought for equal rights in America.
From the marches on Washington to the sit in at the Woolworth
lunch counter in Greensboro. Each marked a burning desire
for social and political change, but experts say the large
number of unregistered black voters today indicates many African
Americans may have lost site of these struggles and are not
exercising their voting power.
Female:
I think that we were a generation that had the mind set that
we had arrived. And we're finding now that we haven't, that
really a lot of changes that have been made were made 30 years
ago and we've not done too much to keep growing toward where
we need to be.
Male:
We have been relatively deficient as a people in getting the
vote out. There's always been a disproportionately lower turnout
of black voters. First of all, we don't register in the same
percentage and population and then we don't turn out, so the
accumulation of those two processes always devalues the black
vote.
Williams:
In fact, there are more than four million unregistered black
voters in the south alone. In North Carolina, African Americans
make up 22% of the population, but only 18% of the registered
voters.
Female:
We, in May, did an effort with regard to trying to get people
out to vote in the primary and we ran into an attitude in
the community. People didn't feel that there was a need to
vote or that their votes really mattered.
Williams:
So now the NAACP is working to change those attitudes.
Female:
NAACP officials in Raleigh are holding community meetings
to focus on voter education and voter empowerment. They hope
the messages heard in those meetings will be powerful enough
to send more African Americans to the polls in November.
Williams:
The community meetings are designed to bring African Americans
information on issues being debated in the various branches
of government, like affirmative action, redistricting and
education. Community leaders explain how these issues are
going to affect day-to-day life in the black community.
Male:
Now, 1997, we're going to start redrawing congressional districts.
What legislature is going to redraw those districts? Are you
going to end up with fair representation? What are you doing
to make sure that you do?
Williams:
Twenty five year old Marco Morgan, a college graduate, answered
those questions by doing something he says he never thought
much about until now. He registered to vote for the first
time and says he plans to be at the polls in November. Still,
he has lots of friends who are not registered to vote.
Morgan:
So, if I go tell them about voting, it's like they got the
attitude like, "What for?" Basically, the same as me before
I came up into this meeting. I didn't expect to get all this
out of this meeting, but I wish they could have came. Because
it's very important. It's very important."
Williams:
Not only is it important, but in many instances, the black
vote has been powerful as well.
Gantt:
That I want to say tonight, from the bottom of my heart, thank
you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Stone:
It was the black vote is the reason that Harvey Gantt defeated
Charles Sanders. That was clearly the black vote that made
a difference.
Williams:
Dr. Chuck Stone has written widely on the power of the black
vote. He says in many close elections the black vote has been
the deciding factor or what he calls the balance of power.
Still, in some cases, Stone says the black vote has been insignificant.
Stone:
So when there's a massive change in the electorate from democratic
to republican, it's was true for Eisenhower, Richard Nikon,
Ronald Regan, George Bush, when you have that happening, the
black vote is almost irrelevant. Because it's so locked into
the democratic party.
Williams:
But whether African Americans vote with the democratic party
or the republican party, to have any type of influence they
must first register to vote.
Female:
Now is the time. It's just very important. It's so important
that we get involved. Also with the recent attacks on affirmative
action, it is no time like now for us to stand up and to be
heard. We have got to come together and we've got to yell
out because if we don't, the clock is going to be turned back
thirty years.
Stone:
All of those women and men who fought and died for the right
to vote, and we don't exercise that right. We are betraying
not only our history, but we are betraying our citizenship.
So I say we've go to register, we've got to turn out and we've
got to exercise a diligent and wise choice. And I'll leave
that up to my people to make that choice.
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Holloway:
Let's keep on pushin'. Thank you Sonya Williams and NC Now.
We hope that you are registered to vote and will vote in the
next election. There are many differing views within the black
community but don't let that stop you from engaging yourself
or your community in the total community. Remember, we'd like
to hear from you about your suggestions and comments on helping
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on this topic and others of interest to the black community.
Thank you for watching another episode of Black Issues Forum
and join us again next Friday evening at 11:00 when we'll
discuss health care and how prevention provides power. I'm
Jay Holloway. Have a blest and peaceful evening. Good night.
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